Love the half-marathon framing. The part about your ambition now including family instead of competing with it feels like an underrated shift. I've seen people treat those as binary, but designing systems around presence (door open/closed) is way smarter than trying to force balance through willpower alone. The quote about quickly resetting hits too, I spent years trying to maintan a perfect equilibrium when really the skill was bouncing back faster.
Thank you! Far from perfect but these systems are starting to help. Would love to learn if there are any other systems or tips that worked for you or others.
Love the half-marathon framing. The part about your ambition now including family instead of competing with it feels like an underrated shift. I've seen people treat those as binary, but designing systems around presence (door open/closed) is way smarter than trying to force balance through willpower alone. The quote about quickly resetting hits too, I spent years trying to maintan a perfect equilibrium when really the skill was bouncing back faster.
Thank you! Far from perfect but these systems are starting to help. Would love to learn if there are any other systems or tips that worked for you or others.